🪶Our Ritual
Our Ritual — A Moment of Return
Every flame tells a story. Each burn is a prayer in motion. This ritual invites you to arrive—fully—so your candle does more than scent a room: it sets a frequency.
What you’ll need
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Your Remedy by Phia B candle
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A lighter or matches
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Optional: journal, crystals, a small dish of water (for symbolism), soft music
The 7-Step Remedy
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Clear — Tidy the surface. Crack a window. Exhale slowly.
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Ground — Place both feet on the floor. Feel Earth beneath you.
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Name — In one sentence, state your intention (e.g., “I invite clarity and calm focus.”)
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Light — Strike the flame and hold your gaze. Inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 6.
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Receive — Let scent and warmth guide your breath. Notice where your body softens.
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Seal — When complete, snuff the flame and say: Rest. Relax. Release.
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Record — Jot one line in your journal: What shifted? What felt true?
Elemental Add-Ons (optional)
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Earth: add a grounding stone (black tourmaline, smoky quartz)
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Air: open a window, invite fresh perspective
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Fire: visualize transformation in the flame
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Water: place a small bowl of water to symbolize flow
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Ether: sit in silence for 60 seconds after snuffing
Candle Care (for maximum burn + safety)
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First burn 2–3 hours for an even melt pool
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Trim wick to ¼ inch before each burn
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Burn up to 4 hours, never unattended, away from drafts, pets, and children
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Stop burning at ½ inch of wax remaining
Closing
You don’t need a perfect moment—only a willing breath. Return to your mantra whenever you need it: Rest. Relax. Release.